Mark Tyrrell
Mark Tyrrell
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Is Trauma Locking Your Client's Depression in Place?
It's certainly not the case that all depressions lead back to one simple cause. The aetiology of a depression can be protracted and complex and may involve the gradual fracturing or a person's life and their capacity to meet their emotional needs.
They begin to ruminate excessively, stress builds followed by an eventual collapse in energy and motivation (and therefore confidence and hope).
But sometimes, just sometimes, we can trace a depression back to a specific trauma. And once we do that and deal effectively with the trauma we are then much better placed to help the client form the kind of life that will help them meet their emotional needs.
If PTSD or trauma is locking a depression in p...
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Видео

4 Tips to Help Hoarding Clients Break Free
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Hoarding may be a natural instinct. After all, the last ice age only ended 10,000 years ago (when hoarding food for the deep winters was vital for survival). But an instinctive need can sometimes turn into an all-consuming ‘greed’ - which is not to judge it harshly, because by greed I mean compulsion. So how do we know when hoarding has become a problem, and how do we help clients looking to ge...
Is depression caused by genes?
Просмотров 79114 дней назад
Over the past 25 years, hundreds of published papers have suggested that a small set of genes influence our proneness to depression. Many hoped this meant that one day we would be able to genetically test for depression and use targeted gene or drug therapy to treat it. But new research at the University of Colorado Boulder has found no significant association between depression risk and the ge...
Stopping exercise could be risky if you're prone to depression
Просмотров 70721 день назад
A recent study of 152 active adults found that stopping a regular exercise routine led to significant increases in depressive symptoms in as little as 3 days. There has long been evidence that regular exercise is a boon for mental health and an effective and natural antidepressant whose side effects include better weight management, improved sleep and mood and better self esteem. But this is th...
Depressed People Use Language Differently
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Recent research found that absolutist words are indicative of depression. It’s been known for a while, and it’s hardly surprising, that the more depressed someone is the more they use negative words and ruminate to toxic levels. It’s also not news that depressed people’s language, both verbal and written, becomes more self-referential during depression, and the more suicidal they feel the more ...
Where you can find free therapist worksheets #worksheet
Просмотров 72428 дней назад
Do you use worksheets when preparing for a therapy session? Although I don't use them myself, I do know how helpful they can be, particularly when you are learning as a therapist, coach or counsellor, or with particular types of client. Therapy worksheets can be a game-changer for client skill development, teaching and reinforcing essential skills like coping strategies, cognitive restructuring...
How to Use the ‘Meaning Vacuum’ with Your Therapy Clients
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What does it mean to be 'cool'? Yes, I know some people look cool or sound cool when they speak. They have a certain elan or panache. But beyond appearances, what does it mean to be cool on the inside? How can learning the art of inner coolness with uncertainty help the mental health of your clients? In this week's video I describe how we can help our clients develop and maintain meaning vacuum...
How to Stop Your Client Self-Blaming and Take the Pressure Off Their Self Esteem
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This week’s video deals with helping clients who are mean... to themselves. Over-blaming the self is one common feature of depression and low self esteem so it's important we help some clients moderate this form of psychological self harm. I don't know about you but as I get older I blame people, including myself, less. I think life teaches you to see a blend of causes in less simplistic terms:...
Why do hypnotherapists use therapeutic amnesia with their clients?
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You may have heard of the term 'therapeutic amnesia'. Well here's how it works, and why hypnotherapists use it with their hypnotherapy clients. 📝 If you want to learn more about hypnosis then you can sign up for my free course 'Learn Hypnosis in 5 Days': www.hypnosisdownloads.com/learn-hypnosis? Practitioners: sign up for my weekly Clear Thinking newsletter here: ▶︎www.unk.com/blog/free-therapy...
How to Help Clients Overcome Fear of Confrontation
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How to Help Clients Overcome Fear of Confrontation
Motivate Change in Your Clients with the 'Curiosity Gap'
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Motivate Change in Your Clients with the 'Curiosity Gap'
First client you hypnotised?
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First client you hypnotised?
Treating Trauma that Hasn't Happened Yet
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Treating Trauma that Hasn't Happened Yet
How to Avoid Emotional Burnout (for Practitioners)
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How to Avoid Emotional Burnout (for Practitioners)
Mark Tyrrell: The Dark Side of Your Emotional Needs | Full Free Audiobook
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Mark Tyrrell: The Dark Side of Your Emotional Needs | Full Free Audiobook
How to Positively Reframe Someone's Negative Traits
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How to Positively Reframe Someone's Negative Traits
Help Ease Your Client's Adult Sibling Rivalry
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Help Ease Your Client's Adult Sibling Rivalry
Does Your Client Psychobabble? How to Deal With the Expert Therapy Client
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Does Your Client Psychobabble? How to Deal With the Expert Therapy Client
3 Reframing Techniques : How to Reframe "Life's Not Fair"
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3 Reframing Techniques : How to Reframe "Life's Not Fair"
How to Treat OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder)
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How to Treat OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder)
3 Mindful Ways to Help Clients Handle Their Emotions
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3 Mindful Ways to Help Clients Handle Their Emotions
5 Tips to Stop Therapy Clients Missing Appointments 🕰️
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5 Tips to Stop Therapy Clients Missing Appointments 🕰️
Treating the Grief of Dashed Life Expectations
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Treating the Grief of Dashed Life Expectations
How to Treat Insomnia - A 3 Point Checklist #insomnia
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How to Treat Insomnia - A 3 Point Checklist #insomnia
3 Psychology Tips For a Success Mindset #psychology
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3 Psychology Tips For a Success Mindset #psychology
Help First Timers Relax About Hypnosis
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Help First Timers Relax About Hypnosis
The Dark Side of Your Emotional Needs: Challenge
Просмотров 5 тыс.Год назад
The Dark Side of Your Emotional Needs: Challenge
How To Turn Vague Therapy Goals Into Actionable Steps
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How To Turn Vague Therapy Goals Into Actionable Steps
How a Conman Can Help You Believe in Yourself as a Therapist
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How a Conman Can Help You Believe in Yourself as a Therapist
The Upside of Addiction
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The Upside of Addiction

Комментарии

  • @astridgeerinck452
    @astridgeerinck452 20 часов назад

    Thank you!

  • @SainiRohan
    @SainiRohan День назад

    This video changed my perspective a lot. Thank you Mark.

  • @stevenmartinez9127
    @stevenmartinez9127 День назад

    Thank you for this. I needed something like this in my life.

  • @karenmerrin3824
    @karenmerrin3824 2 дня назад

    The most comprehensive account of OCD that I've come across so far. Excellent!

  • @justinnyawera8804
    @justinnyawera8804 3 дня назад

    Good stuff this

  • @auntyyunike
    @auntyyunike 4 дня назад

    Makes a lot of sense. Thank you.

  • @Sam-dc9bg
    @Sam-dc9bg 4 дня назад

    A lot of Western thought seems to be very afraid of the subconcious mind. Its so interesting. I didnt see the subconcious as part of myself until therapy.

  • @juozupaitis
    @juozupaitis 4 дня назад

    Super informative...so important to help client understand that trauma from way back can still be limiting them today

  • @pppp67567
    @pppp67567 5 дней назад

    Great points, thank you.

  • @micheller3731
    @micheller3731 5 дней назад

    Packed with useful information as always. Thanks Mark

  • @CaspertheGhost78
    @CaspertheGhost78 5 дней назад

    how can we heal from learned helplessness if our trust was broken over and over again by almost everyone in our life, and we don't feel safe enough to trust anyone?

    • @AngieMoTheWeatherHo
      @AngieMoTheWeatherHo 4 дня назад

      You're reading my mind. I'm wondering these same things. I know what kind of help I need but I don't know how to make myself get the help. I can't make myself do the things to in order to get where I need to be. It's so hard.

  • @mem1701movies
    @mem1701movies 5 дней назад

    Help me

  • @user-xj5wz7hk6t
    @user-xj5wz7hk6t 5 дней назад

    🎯 Key points for quick navigation: 03:42 *The natural grieving process can be hindered if someone is stuck in traumatic memories of the deceased, requiring techniques like the rewind method to help them move forward.* 05:35 *Encourage clients struggling with guilt in their grief to understand that occasional breaks from grieving can enhance their ability to remember and honor their loved one more authentically.* Made with HARPA AI

  • @ShazWag
    @ShazWag 5 дней назад

    This is very helpful. May I ask if you still offer private therapy and clinical hypnosis?

  • @henryvaughan757
    @henryvaughan757 5 дней назад

    Thank you mark. That was a very helpful video. Thank you for your love and insight.

  • @charlesreid9337
    @charlesreid9337 6 дней назад

    You are far more educated and thoughtful than 99% of your field seemed to be. The problem is right now in psychology there is a war between actual scientists add pseudoscientist s. And the pseudoscientists have the power because they're the ones breaking in all the money. Most therapy is talk therapy at the science shows that talk therapy has an overall negative effect on it's patient Base. No one wants their Golden goose killed.. Until the actual scientists manage to take over most of psychology is simply credentialed guruism sold to the public as medicine. At Wendy professions still allows people to push lobotomy, electroshock add allow people who called themselves Freudians jungians etc to practice it is neither science nor medicine

  • @lucyzee7664
    @lucyzee7664 6 дней назад

    This is incredible thank you so much !!!!

  • @sumitrajput2777
    @sumitrajput2777 7 дней назад

    ❤❤

  • @hollycoombes5337
    @hollycoombes5337 7 дней назад

    Hi Mark. I reallt love your videos. I am a new counsellor ans just learning to find my feet. U had a depressed client recently but it wasnt thr best experience. What do you do when a client doesnt engage? He stayed for 30 minutes and felt tired and wanted to leave. He had no goals or interests and no significant special relatiionships. He could not think about whay he wanted for his future- not even for 2 weeks time. Whwre do you go when a client is quite avoidandant? It was like the lights were on but no one was home. Any tips? I was struggling to make any impact or get a conversation going. It felt like a lack of emotion....

    • @MarkTyrrellUnk
      @MarkTyrrellUnk 7 дней назад

      Hi there, there are few videos and articles on Mark's blog that might be useful here. We have a video on dealing with avoidant clients: ruclips.net/video/-X2i1QDdS2E/видео.html And articles on dealing with difficult clients on Mark's blog: www.unk.com/blog/category/dealing-with-difficult-clients/ Some of the articles in the depression category could offer some more tips (www.unk.com/blog/category/depression-2/), and some of these are available to watch on RUclips here - I hope you find these useful: ruclips.net/p/PLoty4kAAb_7GLm7wcWj9_qocKRcJtIiXP

    • @hollycoombes5337
      @hollycoombes5337 7 дней назад

      @@MarkTyrrellUnk thanks heaps.. I'll check it out! Dows mark do 1-1 supercisons online?

  • @ernestt8398
    @ernestt8398 7 дней назад

    The 2nd technique reminds me of the DBT concept of vulnerability in a behaviour chain analysis. What old history is showing up right here, and is the history affecting us? Ex: Someone asked for support in the past but was met with reprimand from their supervisor. This may be a pattern in their life when they ask for support When they want to ask for support with a manager who appears friendly they are highly apprehensive due to their past history.

  • @fluggy20033
    @fluggy20033 9 дней назад

    Anxiety and depression are soul destroying. If I do manage to sleep a few hours I HATE waking up coz the cycle begins again. Awful feeling in my chest and its fight or flight 24/7. No respite. No relaxed periods. Its relentless and all consuming and its really hard to explain to someone who hasnt experienced it. You dont enjoy ANYTHING.. you dont look forward to ANYTHING. You dont eat, barely sleep .... Its so easy to delve into suicidal thoughts as a way to escape the exhaustion of it. Its unbearable!

  • @anabo8975
    @anabo8975 10 дней назад

    I think depression is caused by lying people who take away our faith in humankind.

  • @user-vs5uc1go2e
    @user-vs5uc1go2e 10 дней назад

    Jane, I miss you with all my heart and soul!

  • @user-do9zb6nd6f
    @user-do9zb6nd6f 10 дней назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @Brohamad180
    @Brohamad180 15 дней назад

    Hope I get better

  • @Dr.DwightD
    @Dr.DwightD 15 дней назад

    Well said! 👏👏

  • @HelloWorld17254
    @HelloWorld17254 15 дней назад

    Amazing video! I can relate in many ways. Thank you for discussing these vulnerable moments and finding and sharing the solutions that work! 🙏🏼😃

  • @HelloWorld17254
    @HelloWorld17254 15 дней назад

    I get your weekly emails and got this one about “hoarding” today. Love all your writing and teachings!! THANK YOU!🙏🏼

  • @curtpriestley2107
    @curtpriestley2107 15 дней назад

    Shit like this makes me never ever want to be in a relationship again

  • @bethetruth1842
    @bethetruth1842 15 дней назад

    Hoarding Backfires

  • @bethetruth1842
    @bethetruth1842 15 дней назад

    😆😆😆😂😂😂😂🤣😂😄😂😆 Thanks Mark" for the hysterics & the insight and informations x♡o. 🐴🐮🌹🌱💎❣🙏👍

  • @whitewittock
    @whitewittock 15 дней назад

    Fascinating as usual, I never thought about the trauma hoarders are trying to bury

  • @jojodaisy4
    @jojodaisy4 15 дней назад

    As someone who does home health physiotherapy, I am so amazed at this video and your ability to help this client to achieve all that in such a short space of time seems quite miraculous!! It’s so wonderful to know it can be treated

    • @Zawiedek
      @Zawiedek 14 дней назад

      Very short time indeed, However, the client he describes actively searched for help, showed a lot of insight, and seemed highly motivated and longing for change. These factors are crucial for therapeutic success.

  • @Vanessabeachdreamer2025
    @Vanessabeachdreamer2025 15 дней назад

    Please make more content on this unique, though seemingly common disorder. I find it fascinating, but hard to understand why/how it impacts a person to the degree to which it does. More of your insight is requested.

  • @athenalimos
    @athenalimos 15 дней назад

    thank you very much for this helpful video! Greetings from Greece!

  • @marciastephen3421
    @marciastephen3421 15 дней назад

    Interesting topic. Very knowledgeable.

  • @palmamingozzi5736
    @palmamingozzi5736 15 дней назад

    This is advice for a normal relationship not a toxic narcissist one.

  • @gv5288
    @gv5288 15 дней назад

    It's stigmatizing to call a person a "hoarder" just as it's stigmatizing to call a person an "addict". People have disorders, they don't become the disorder. The disorder is not their intrinsic identity.

    • @whitewittock
      @whitewittock 15 дней назад

      That's a very woke comment, it's no more stigmatising to add the adjective of hoarder to a person than other adjectives like mortal, endothermic sentient featherless biped, if they have that trait

  • @clacicle
    @clacicle 15 дней назад

    I worked with quite a number of hoarders in the United States some years ago. Most were women and many had also experienced physical and or sexual violence from their partners who had served in the military during the Vietnam and Korean wars.

  • @BaroqueViolin
    @BaroqueViolin 15 дней назад

    Very interesting! Thank you!

  • @dlrowadkcuf
    @dlrowadkcuf 15 дней назад

    This is Awesome!!

  • @xeropunt5749
    @xeropunt5749 15 дней назад

    greed may be a fear of inadequacy…which is a false fear.

  • @greenspiral2955
    @greenspiral2955 15 дней назад

    Nice of you to visit a client at home. I think the stage at which the 'to be discarded' box is filled is the most tricky if it does not leave the house strait away! It is really helpful to have a friend help with this. Often it is not as simple as taking it down the charity shop...

  • @chriswoodford4331
    @chriswoodford4331 15 дней назад

    Got a friend who buys DVDs (many doubles and trebles) from charity shops and spends £1000s on state of the art TVs every few months. His place is rammed full. There is nowhere to stand. When I talk of throwing stuff out it’s never the DVDs.

  • @TeamTennisfr
    @TeamTennisfr 15 дней назад

    Nice one

  • @Jepse89
    @Jepse89 16 дней назад

    Great thinker I truly resonate with what he is saying

  • @etrebelle9812
    @etrebelle9812 16 дней назад

    You just tell it like it is! Almost as.. you actually want to help. Got prescribed things before they were absolutely useless as I thought they would be.

  • @tonivaripati5951
    @tonivaripati5951 18 дней назад

    Been using Hypnosis for decades, it's done f%ck all for my PTSD, trouble is there are a lot of people claiming to have had PTSD , some will be faking it for business reasons, such as to get in clients for hypnosis at £100 an hour for a session of therapy!

  • @sbren777
    @sbren777 18 дней назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @kateking3953
    @kateking3953 18 дней назад

    Yes, but not being liked isn't the worst that can happen. I fear falling over and getting broken, because it's happened once, I'm in England, our health service is chaos, my local hospital trust is very poor. A friend who did fall recently ended up in the local hospital, and the care was so poor she had a stroke. Three months later she is still not rehabilitated and can't manage her life any more. In my mind that is something very real indeed. I'd like to be certain it won't happen to me!!